Spaces in Togetherness

I attended the wedding celebration of my good friend
Zachary Provost this past Sunday.
The father and mother of the groom were invited to give a blessing
to the wedding couple and they read this passage from
poet Kahlil Gibran's work 'The Prophet'.
I was very moved by the wisdom of these words:

"You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when
the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.

But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

Fill each other's cups but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.

Sing and dance together and be joyous,
but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow."

- 'The Prophet' by Kahlil Gibran